a child's bill of rights

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PARENTING GUIDELINES:

One often hears parents say “my child did not come with a manual for me to understand it”. Well, here we can offer you a wonderful starting point. This Bill of Rights obviously extends to parents too!  Let us treat each other with respect – as we would like to be treated.  This ideal is worth striving and working for.

A CHILD'S BILL OF RIGHTS!

I have a right to live rather than exist

I have a right to personhood rather than being an object of possession

I have a right to equality with every other human being regardless of age

I have a right to be respected with regard to my worth

I have a right to be uniquely myself with my own identity

I have a right to speak my thoughts and feelings, and to be heard

I have a right to ask “why?” and to receive answers

I have a right to receive discipline without being hollered at, discounted or put down

I have a right to be encouraged to grow to maturity at my own pace

I have a right to be free from physical harm at the hands of resentful people

I have a right to be loved for being me

I have a right, with valid guidance, to think for myself, and to make my own decisions

I have a right to be responsible for myself

I have a right to feel joy, happiness, sorrow, bereavement, anger and pain

I have a right to be a winner

I have a right to care and be cared for, to nurture and be nurtured, to give and receive

I have a right to form my own convictions, beliefs and standards

I have a right to know and experience personal freedom

I have a right to my own body, mind, and soul, and to use them in a sharing experience

I have a right to recognise and accept the rights of others regarding their Bill of Rights

From Woititz, J. G. (1992). Healthy Parenting, pp12-13.New York, Simon & Schuster.


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INFORMATION TO BE USED AT YOUR OWN RISK
Any suggestions or opinions voiced in these pages are those of the authors, and in no way to be construed as final treatment advice. They are intended as a starting point to develop your own preparation and treatment plan. Please consult your medical and/or psychological experts or caregivers to fine-tune the advice and suggestions for your unique needs.